Monthly Archives: May 2006

Who says money can't buy happiness…

30 May 2006

It can if you happen to have a publisher with deep pockets, willing to pay top dollar to get your books on the “Top Shelf.” I knew publishers paid for shelf space, but had no idea it went this far! Un-F’king-Believable…..

Seventy per cent of promotional budgets go on furtive payments to bookshops. The message to the author is: “Nobody would read you if we didn’t pay, so shut up grumbling.” To the reader the message is: “You are a fool pig, guaranteed to go for the shiniest swill-bucket.” To the newspapers who publish bestseller charts it is simply: “Gotcha!”

Read more here…..

Starbuckization of Society

29 May 2006

It’s not enough that Starbucks sells 4 million coffee drinks a day; now they want to change pop culture…and they’ll probably do it! I knew I should have done that poetry reading when I had the chance!

Read more here…

And the rich keep getting richer….

26 May 2006

Former President Clinton has struck a deal to write another book. Alfred A. Knopf will publish the new work, in which Clinton will focus on public service and citizen activism, telling a story that he hopes will “lift spirits” and “touch hearts.” The book is set for release in late 2007, early 2008; just in time for the 2008 Presidential election. Reports suggest he received a “low to mid-seven-figure” advance.

Don’t get too used to that spotlight Bill…Madame O is already stealing it! It was announced at the BEA Expo in Washington that Oprah has signed a deal with Simon & Schuster that not only tops is the $12 million advance that he received for his autobiography, but is reported to be the biggest signed work of non-fiction to date. The daytime diva who has been publicly battling the bulge for years, is writing a book about keeping weight under control.

On the home-front in Littleville, my latest work in progress, Exposed, is coming along nicely. I also have a feature coming up in the June issue of Writing Edge Magazine. This is an Australian based publication and not available in the states, but copies are available for purchase online. I’ll be posting excerpts of the article once it hits the newsstands, as well as a link to purchase. And as if being the feature author weren’t enough, they’ve also contacted me about publishing 3 of my poems in the mag as well…Whoo-Hoo! I’ve also syndicated Wordsmith so you can subscribe to the live feed as I post to the site. See the sidebar to sign up. Stay tuned…

To post or not to post…

25 May 2006

As usual, Paperback Writer has some very useful information over at her place. This time a 3-part post on the in’s and out’s of posting stories free on the web. A must read for anyone considering it.

Charitable Cause or Child Abuse

20 May 2006

It’s noon, the traffic at the intersection is already thick with early weekend travelers. Tempers wear thin as temperatures near 91 degrees and each corner and median is packed with children and adults bearing colorful buckets and signs asking for money; this time for a Christian Youth Mission.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for youth programs and involving the children when it comes to raising funds for your cause, but what I find hard to tolerate is gathering a group of kids to panhandle in busy traffic, and that’s exactly what it amounts to…begging for money.

Not only does this show a lack of creativity, but it’s extremely dangerous and irresponsible. In the 3 minutes that I was stopped at the light, I saw one adult out in traffic walking between the cars on the actual road and 4 kids darting across the road to get to a different corner, with no adult anywhere around and cars traveling toward them at 45+ miles per hour with a green light!

Get a clue folks! Just how important is this charity? Important enough to put your kids lives at stake, because that’s exactly what I witnessed this morning.

If you need to raise funds for your organization there are many alternatives that can be fun and safe, while teaching the kids some sense of responsibility and teamwork, as well as how rewarding it can be to reap the benefits of your efforts. I did a quick 3 second search for “events kids can do to raise money” and came up with multiple pages of links filled with suggestions.

The story of Mother's Day

13 May 2006

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The earliest Mother’s Day celebrations can be traced back to the spring celebrations of ancient Greece in honor of Rhea, the Mother of the Gods. During the 1600′s, England celebrated a day called “Mothering Sunday”. Celebrated on the 4th Sunday of Lent (the 40 day period leading up to Easter), “Mothering Sunday” honored the mothers of England. During this time many of the England’s poor worked as servants for the wealthy. As most jobs were located far from their homes, the servants would live at the houses of their employers.

On Mothering Sunday the servants would have the day off and were encouraged to return home and spend the day with their mothers. A special cake, called the mothering cake, was often brought along to provide a festive touch. As Christianity spread throughout Europe the celebration changed to honor the “Mother Church” – the spiritual power that gave them life and protected them from harm.

Over time the church festival blended with the Mothering Sunday celebration. People began honoring their mothers as well as the church. In the United States Mother’s Day was first suggested in 1872 by Julia Ward Howe (who wrote the words to the Battle hymn of the Republic) as a day dedicated to peace. Ms. Howe would hold organized Mother’s Day meetings in Boston, Mass ever year.

In 1907 Ana Jarvis, from Philadelphia, began a campaign to establish a national Mother’s Day. Ms. Jarvis persuaded her mother’s church in Grafton, West Virginia to celebrate Mother’s Day on the second anniversary of her mother’s death, the 2nd Sunday of May. By the next year Mother’s Day was also celebrated in Philadelphia.

Ms. Jarvis and her supporters began to write to ministers, businessman, and politicians in their quest to establish a national Mother’s Day. It was successful as by 1911 Mother’s Day was celebrated in almost every state. President Woodrow Wilson, in 1914, made the official announcement proclaiming Mother’s Day as a national holiday that was to be held each year on the 2nd Sunday of May.

While many countries of the world celebrate their own Mother’s Day at different times throughout the year, there are some countries such as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia, and Belgium which also celebrate Mother’s Day on the second Sunday of May.

Weapons of Mass Poetry

12 May 2006

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This article came across my desk today, by way of my wonderful poet friend, Mr. Ray, and I thought it definitely worth sharing.

In poetry-loving Yemen, tribal bard takes on Al Qaeda – with his verse By James Brandon Correspondent of The Christian Science Monitor SANAA, YEMEN –

As the dusk call to prayer fades, Amin al-Mashreqi glances at the expectant faces surrounding him and begins to read from his slim, handwritten book of verse that is helping to bring a measure of peace to this mountainous Arab country.

O, you who kidnap our guests,
Your house will refuse you,
These violations are against Islam

Crammed into a mud-brick shop, his audience, some with their hands resting on their gold-trimmed daggers, listen to his verse denouncing violence and Islamic militancy. When he finishes, there is silence. Then the room erupts in applause.

“Other countries fight terrorism with guns and bombs, but in Yemen we use poetry,” says Mr. Mashreqi later. “Through my poetry I can convince people of the need for peace who would never be convinced by laws or by force.”

For years Yemen has been known as a breeding ground for extremism. It is the ancestral homeland of Osama bin Laden and where Al Qaeda bombed the USS Cole in 2000. But today this country is quietly winning a reputation for using unorthodox tactics to take on Islamic militancy.

“Yemen has turned to poets because they are able to speak to diverse groups of people who the literati and the elite cannot reach,” explains W. Flagg Miller, professor of Anthropology and Religious Studies at the University of Wisconsin who has studied Yemeni poetry for about 20 years.

For centuries, Yemen’s rulers have relied on poets like Mashreqi to take the government’s message into remote areas where regular soldiers and officials feared to tread – and where using force could create more, and angrier, enemies.

“There is a long tradition of leaders turning to poets right across the Arab world,” explains Dr. Miller. “The prophet Muhammad himself worked with a poet, Hassan ibn Thabit, to spread the word and compose poetry against other poets and tribes who refused to acknowledge Islam.”

But the long and rich history of Yemeni polemical poetry, the idea of using tribal poets to fight extremism began with a chance meeting nearly two years ago, explains Faris Sanabani, a friend of Yemen’s president and editor of a weekly English-language newspaper The Yemen Observer.

Leading Yemenis in Sanaa had gathered to chew khat, a narcotic shrub, talk politics, and listen to poetry, Mr. Sanabani recalls. Suddenly, one guest turned to Yemen’s most popular tribal poet, Mashreqi, and asked him if he could recite any poetry about terrorism, he says. Mashreqi rose eagerly to the challenge. He stood up, adjusted the broad, curving dagger hanging at his waist and proudly declaimed a handful of verses glorifying suicide bombers.

As the applause faded, the man who had asked him to recite the verses, Sanabani himself, took him aside and quietly invited him to visit his office. The next day at the office of the Yemen Observer, Sanabani asked Mashreqi to watch a video made after Al Qaeda’s 2002 suicide boat-attack on the French oil tanker SS Limburg off the Yemeni coast. “I showed him footage of the environmental damage caused by the oil spill and of Yemeni fishermen and their families whose livelihood had been destroyed because their fishing grounds were polluted,” recalls Sanabani.

Chastened by the images of oil-stained beaches, dead fish, and seabirds and sobbing, destitute Yemeni fishermen, Mashreqi left Sanabani’s office appearing troubled and lost in thought. When Sanabani next saw him he seemed a man transformed.

“Three days later he came back with the most beautiful poetry I have ever seen,” says Sanabani, recalling his amazement at the poet’s new verses that now condemned violence and promoted peace and tolerance.

Sanabani and Mashreqi realized that the historic respect accorded to poets gives them a unique power to win over illiterate tribesmen in remote areas where villagers are traditionally skeptical of all that the government has to say and offer. “The Yemeni people are very sensitive to poetry – especially traditional poetry like this,” says Mashreqi. “If poetry contains the right ideas and is used in the right context, then people will respond to it because this is heart of their culture.”

And although Yemen has used force to tackle Al Qaeda cells and rebel groups, Mashreqi’s poems also fit into Yemen’s wider strategy of defeating Islamic extremism by appealing to their countrymen’s sense of pride, honor, and patriotism.

O men of arms, why do you love injustice?
You must live in law and order
Get up, wake up, or be forever regretful,
Don’t be infamous among the nations

The poems, however, also robustly argue that carrying out terrorist attacks in Yemen will succeed in scaring away much-needed foreign investment and tourism – an argument that few impoverished Yemenis can dispute.

“You have to talk to people about the dangers and effects of terrorism,” says Ahmed al-Kibsi, professor of political science at Sanaa University. “Education, the media, and the military complement each other.” So far Yemen’s tactics seem to be helping.

Since Yemen’s President Ali Abdullah Saleh joined President Bush’s War on Terror in late 2001 the country has not experienced any major Islamist attacks – although internal tribal conflicts regularly flare up, as does a long-running Shiite Muslim uprising in the country’s far north. But while there have been few successful attacks by Islamic militants in Yemen, the country has still had its troubles with Al Qaeda.

In February, at least 23 suspected and convicted Al Qaeda members escaped from a jail in Sanaa. The Yemen Observer reported that, “some of the escapees were the most important and dangerous members of Yemen’s Al Qaeda network, and have been blamed for bombing the USS Cole warship in Aden.” Also, there may have been other unintended side effects of Yemen’s successful campaign to persuade would-be jihadists not to carry out their attacks on Yemeni soil.

Anecdotal evidence suggests that many Yemenis have instead traveled to Iraq to fight against the US-led occupation. In the anti-Soviet jihad in Afghanistan in the 1980s, Yemenis are said to have made up the second largest contingents of Arab volunteers. Others worry that while Yemen has succeeded in suppressing the visible symptoms of Islamic militancy, the root causes of violent radicalism remain and the Islamic militancy in the country is not defeated but is instead merely dormant.

Rising poverty, a lack of opportunity, and the arrogance and corruption of an increasingly authoritarian ruling class mean that Yemen’s victory over terrorism may be only temporary.

“I’ve become aware of a real anger on the streets,” says Robin Madrid, resident director of the National Democratic Institute’s program in Yemen, adding that many Yemenis can despairingly point out second and third homes built by government ministers.

“Yemen has the potential to make excellent progress on all the fronts that we’re concerned about,” says Nabeel Khoury, deputy chief of mission at the US Embassy, Sanaa, citing Yemen’s need to tackle corruption and international arms smuggling while also extending democratization and protecting press freedom.

“At the same time, Yemen faces so many serious challenges that if it doesn’t make the right decisions it risks deterioration on all these fronts,” says Mr. Khoury, “with potential consequences for domestic as well as regional stability.”

Thanks Mr. Ray for Sharing

10 May 2006

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Native American Prayer for Peace

O Great Spirit of our Ancestors, I raise my pipe to you, to your messengers the four winds, and to Mother Earth who provides for your children. Give us the wisdom to teach our children to love, to respect, and to be kind to each other so that they may grow with peace in mind. Let us learn to share all the good things that you provide for us on this Earth.

An authors role in book promotion

5 May 2006

Paperback Writer has an interesting post regarding book promotion and an authors responsibility or lack thereof. Be sure to check it out…It’s definitely worth the read and actually made me breath a giant sigh of relief! Check it out here: Paperback Writer; Musty

Medicated…for your protection!

3 May 2006

You go running for the shelter of Mama’s litter helpers…outside the door, she took 4 more…what a drag it is getting old!

Did you ever have one of those days when you worked your ass off and got absolutely nothing accomplished? Today was one of those days for me and it sucked!

It started about 3 a.m. when my son came and woke me because he’d had a bad dream. I grabbed my pillows and dragged myself to his room and tried to find a comfortable position to sleep in the race car bed. Four hours later I woke with a start when I heard the birds singing outside the window and I realized my husband hadn’t gotten me up with the alarm.

Turns out instead of hitting the snooze he turned it completely off and was still asleep when I went in search of him. We were a flurry of activity as we got ready for school and work and just as we were headed out the door I remembered I hadn’t taken my vitamins.

I grabbed a bottled water, medicated myself and put the water in my purse to take with me. I was walking toward the door when I felt water on the back of my leg and wondered what the hell it was. I spun around and as I did, slung water all over the floor that was spewing out the bottom of my purse, as I had forgotten to put the lid back on before I shoved it in my purse!

Shit-shit-shit!

I put my purse down and the first thing I saw was my cell phone floating at the bottom along with my $16.00 tube of mascara. I ran to the kitchen and proceeded to dump the contents into the sink, dried everything off, threw it back in and out the door we went.

We were 5 minutes late for school, had to stand in line for a note and when we got to class, realized that I hadn’t brought the gift for teacher appreciation week. Left the school, went back home, grabbed the gift, back to school, dropped off the gift, back in the car and off to the beach! Whew….

Once I got to the office and set up for the day it only got worse, as one thing after another kept going wrong. Around 3:00, I decided to pack it in and head out. When I got home I was tempted to not even pull out the laptop as there was really no point, but I’m glad I did, as I received this most kind and thoughtful email from a fan who had been at my website and decided to send me a note;

“Thank you for another wonderful contest. I would also like to let you know that all the hard work you put into your site really shows. I always enjoy my visits here and the info I get is the best around. Thank you for the hard work you do to make our visits so rewarding! I love your Work!!”

And that was all it took! The dark cloud that had been looming over my head all day suddenly floated away. Funny how it only takes a small gesture of kindness, from people we might not even know to turn our frown upside-down. Thank you Sharon, you truly made my day!

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